What she needs now, folks, is recommendations: who to friend, what to read, where to go. Who's hot, who's cool. Good archives, good communities, good sites.
Please post your suggestions here and we'll compile a good list of resources for people new to the fandom.
tenipuri -- general talk, links to cool stuff, news, discussion, downloads, sometimes fic
tenipuri_yaoi -- slash/yaoi fic
potfics -- all sorts of fic -- not used as much
I have to run off to work now, but I will update the post later with more links and stuff.