Watched the first three eps of Buffy S3 tonight.
Xander: [ almost stakes Buffy by accident ]
Buffy: [ grabs the stake and almost stakes Xander before she realises it's him ] Didn't anyone ever warn you about playing with pointy sticks? It's all fun and games until somebody loses an eye.
Also, Giles physically threatens Snyder, which is immediately followed by some angry sex.